Previously we were uncaching inodes from TmpFSInode::one_ref_left().
This was not safe, since one_ref_left() was effectively being called
on a raw pointer after decrementing the local ref count and observing
it become 1. There was a race here where someone else could trigger
the destructor by unreffing to 0 before one_ref_left() got called,
causing us to call one_ref_left() on a deleted inode.
We fix this by using the new remove_from_secondary_lists() mechanism
in ListedRefCounted and synchronizing all access to the TmpFS inode
map with the main Inode::all_instances() lock.
There's probably a nicer way to solve this.
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